Happy Valentine’s Day from THELOVE4HAPPINESS


This is one of my favorite love quotes!

With where I am at in my life, it almost speaks directly to my heart.  

I love the relationship that I have with myself.

To be honest, I have most fun when I am doing the things that I love with myself.

Not to say that adding another person into the equation takes the fun out of it, because it doesn’t.
What I am saying, is that because I am happy (not everyday all day, but overall) with the relationship between myself and I, I am very picky with who I choose to allow in my love circle.  

With that being said, if I happen to come upon another person who loves the ME I love, I would have trouble letting that person out of my love circle.


I think the most important relationship is with ourselves.

How can we create a healthy and happy relationship with someone else if we haven’t taken the time to create one with ourselves?

The relationship with ourselves is more or less the ground work for how the relationships with others will play out in our lives.

Treat yourself to something special today.  Celebrate the love that connects each and every one of us together.

Spread love and cheer wherever you go today.  You may be surprised by what you receive back!

ENJOY, everyone.

Saying Goodbye … For The Last Time … I Hope


I don’t know about any of you, but saying good-bye to someone you love, who may or may not be the right one for you at this time in your life, can be one of the hardest decisions to make.  Making the decision is one thing, but then sticking to it is another.  I think we all reach a point where saying ‘goodbye is the only solution that will keep us sane and keep us, US.

I think, or I hope, that I have reached that point.  The in-between and back and forth stages of losing hope and then having hope again, is becoming far too heavy on my heart.  I want to say goodbye and start to live a life for ME and not for what was or what could be.

I want this to be the last goodbye…

This quote seems appropriate … 

“The greatest gift you can give somebody is your own personal development. I used to

say, “If you will take care of me, I will take care of you. “Now I say, I will take care of me

for you, if you will take care of you for me.”

― Jim Rohn


I love this quote, by Carrie Bradshaw, from Sex and The City.
There are no rules when it comes to relationships. There is no “right way” or “wrong way”. There is simply the “perfect way” that works for you and your significant other.

And at times it may be difficult but if the happy times out weigh the tough times, then continue loving him or her with all of your heart. They never said it was easy, but they did say it was WORTH IT! 🙂


*Quote* If I know what Love is, it is because of You!

This is a feeling I wish upon everyone! I hope that each and every one of us can feel this way towards another person.

Seek and you shall find:) DO NOT SETTLE! It is not fair to you nor the person you are with.

Follow your heart and it will lead you to the right place, at the right time, to meet that ONE person. ❤